a pansexual, panfetish, educational and social organization

The following Guidelines of Etiquette are designed to support a safe and respectful space for all who attend any Desert Dominion events. The result of violating any of these guidelines may be a request to leave and the possible revocation of my membership, without the refund of any fees you have paid.

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During play parties, scenes are restricted to the play floor and the first row of seating. The Dungeon Monitor watches the play area for safety concerns. The DM has the final word in all conflicts on the play floor.

Respect Others
• We require confidentiality and discretion. Respect the privacy of others, and agree to keep confidential the names and activities of others.
• Everyone has opinions and every member is welcome to voice opinions at any time in a non-threatening way.
• Some fetishes may not appeal to you. Don’t make other’s kink/fetish wrong.
• No play behind the front row of couches.
• No bottom nudity in the food room.
• Do not touch people or their belongings without their permission.
• Respect others’ play-space; do not disrupt or distract others’ scenes.
• No smoking in the building.
• Keep heavy scents such as cologne, perfume and oils to a minimum. No scented candles, sage or incense permitted at a general play party.
• Videotaping and photography are allowed only with supervision from the DM on duty or an attending Council Member.

Don’t Break or Attract the Law
• The solicitation or commission of BDSM activities for a fee is not permitted.
• No play, nudity or excessive noise outside.
• No working firearms. Non-functioning replicas are permitted only after approval by a DM or Council Member.
• No illegal substances, including alcohol, on club grounds.
• No admittance or play while obviously impaired.

Clean Up Your Mess
• After your scene, you are responsible for cleaning the area in which you played. MadaCide is provided for this.
• No scat or water sports.
• Needles and other disposable sharps must be disposed of in a sharps container.
• All fluids must be contained within your negotiated scene.
• Planned activities that may involve any messy liquids such as wax, or other substances require a drop cloth.
• If you are scantily clad, please use a towel when sitting in the social area.

Take Care of Yourself
• It is your responsibility to remove yourself from anything you find offensive.
• Keep your activities within your experience level.
• All activities must be consensual.
• No play to intentionally render anyone unconscious.
• No carotid artery play.
• Desert Dominion is committed to preventing sexually transmitted diseases, encourages personal responsibility, offers safer sex education resources and provides free barriers.

• Members who play in DD space are encouraged to use easily recognized safe words such as the following. Remember to notify the DM of your agreed upon safe-signal when a gag or hood is used.

"Red," "Yellow," and "Green," which mean:

RED: Stop all activity at once.

YELLOW: Slow down; not as intense.

GREEN: Continue